Earlier this week I held the 46th IT Manager Institute at Graymere Country Club in Columbia, TN. This has turned out to be a great venue for us and we look forward to delivering more training programs at Graymere.
This class was super with quite a diverse group of managers, , , a couple with many years of management experience and a few who are new to IT management, , , many different industries from mining to healthcare to manufacturing and distribution to newspaper media and banking, , , and from many parts of the world including Uganda, Canada, and Saudi Arabia.
This was a fun class, , , they connected on the first day and we had a great time.
Here are a few photos of the week, , ,
Class dinner at River Terraces overlooking the Duck River
Our class paparazzi on the left (Mark) about to catch Muj asleep at dinner
Lunch at Graymere, , , always a good meal
James and Amr traveled the farthest, , , from Uganda and Saudi Arabia
Hanging around after the first day deciding where to go for dinner
Amr and Randy having fun at dinner
Paying close attention during class
Getting ready to order a great meal at the class dinner
Robert and James posing for the camera
Getting ready to talk about budgeting
Special guest Jon Pyles, a founder of TechRepublic and IT Business Edge, shared the last two days with us













































Lose credibility when you disparage others
When I worked for IBM in the old days, , , late 70’s and early 80’s, , , there was an employee guideline that deterred the practice of disparaging against a competitor. We were not supposed to say anything negative about a competitor when we communicated with clients and prospects.
The reason this “non-disparage” guideline was enforced was because IBM knew when an employee made a negative comment about the competitor it actually only succeeded in making the individual and the company lose credibility.
This principle holds true in your company and within your IT organization.
If you can’t say something positive about your client, , , it is better to say nothing at all.
Coach your employees to take the high road and discuss things in a positive and helpful light versus being critical of others. True leaders and professionals speak to the positive merits of things and do not try to run someone else down in order to boost themselves up.
High detail people like most of us are in the IT world can be a bit cynical and tend to criticize others. When you do it makes you come across as jealous or insecure and hurts your credibility. It also makes people wonder what you are saying about them when they aren’t around.
Stay above the fray and negative chatter and people will see you as a stronger professional and someone they want to work with and trust.
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